Guides

In-depth guides on the topics that matter most — exercise, mental health, HRT, doctor conversations, medications, and more. Written by Rose as she lives through perimenopause herself.

Rose
Rose
"These are the pages I wish had existed when I needed them. Not summaries — full guides with the detail that actually helps you understand what is happening and what to do about it."
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Essential reading
Start here
New to perimenopause or menopause? The three stages explained — what each one means, when it starts, and what to expect.
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Lifestyle
Exercise and strength training
The single most evidence-backed lifestyle intervention for menopausal health. Resistance training, aerobic exercise, HIIT, and yoga — what each one does and how to start.
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Emotional health
Mental health and emotional support
Mood changes, anxiety, rage, and depression in perimenopause — what is happening in the brain, what helps, and how to get support.
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Must read
The HRT story — what really happened
The 2002 study that scared a generation of women away from HRT had serious flaws. The full story in plain language — what went wrong, what the evidence actually shows.
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Advocacy
Doctor conversation guides
What to say, how to say it, and what to do if you are dismissed. Six conversations with exact language — HRT, antidepressants, vaginal dryness, thyroid, testosterone.
Conditions
Early menopause and POI
Menopause before 45 and Premature Ovarian Insufficiency — causes, diagnosis, why HRT is essential not optional, and what to ask your doctor.
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Diet
What to avoid
Alcohol, refined sugar, ultra-processed food, caffeine — how common dietary choices specifically worsen perimenopause and menopause symptoms, and what to do instead.
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Diet
Dietary patterns for menopause
Mediterranean, Galveston, low-glycaemic, protein-forward — the dietary approaches with the strongest evidence for perimenopause and menopause, and what each one emphasises.
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Diet
Recipes
Simple, practical recipes built around the foods Rose recommends — each one tagged by what it helps. Hot flashes, sleep, bone density, metabolic health.
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Treatments
Treatment approaches
HRT, BHRT, Traditional Chinese Medicine, Ayurveda, acupuncture, CBT, pelvic floor therapy, yoga, resistance training, intermittent fasting, CGM, peptide therapy and more.
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Medications
Prescription medications
HRT, local vaginal estrogen, SSRIs, gabapentin, ospemifene, low-dose naltrexone — honest evidence grades and questions to ask your doctor.
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Health
Gut health and digestion
Hormone shifts at menopause change the gut microbiome significantly. Bloating, digestive changes, and gut permeability — what is happening and what helps.
Health
Skin, hair and nail changes
Collagen falls 30% in the first five years after menopause. Hair thinning, skin changes, brittle nails — what is causing it and what actually helps.
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Essential reading
Understanding your lab results
Normal is not the same as optimal. Every key biomarker explained — the standard range, what most doctors accept, and what optimal looks like for a menopausal woman.